Now we know where the 80s got it from

Oh the hair.
Let’s all take a minute to appreciate these hairdos.
There are no words to describe them really. These perfectly coiffed doos are really works of art.
I mean, they didn’t have hairspray back then people.

This photograph was probably taken around the turn of the century, when Edwardian and Gibson hairstyles were all the rage.


Back row left to right: Beatrice, Neil, Ruby, Front left to right: Mina, Agnes (Mina and her children)

I found this gem while researching family names.


The famous "Gibson Girl"

The famous “Gibson Girl”

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Mina and her children come from the “Mary E Lane” side of the family.
While researching I found out that she had more than awesome hair. Times were really different back then.

Mina grew up right in the middle of the Civil War. I can’t even imagine what it would be like.
I discovered that Mina’s father fought in the Civil War. It is unclear which side he fought for, although he was born in New York and raised his family in Michigan so it is likely that he would have fought for the North. Both of these states were some of the first to ban slavery. I would like to think he fought on the abolitionist side.

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Civil war soldier in the trenches. Photo courtesy of  Jean Damien

Civil war soldier in the trenches. Photo courtesy of Jean Damien

I also discovered that Mina’s parents divorced which intrigued me. Divorce wasn’t common in the 1870s like it is today. Hiram Lane (Mina’s Father remarried 15 years later).

In an article called Divorce: Dilemma for Early Americans, I learned possibly why there was divorce.
It says:

After the Civil War divorce cases escalated all over the country. Families separated for the duration of the war didn’t always want to reunite. Many men found it easier to disappear in the west rather than return to their families leaving the wife to file for desertion. Civil War pension files often reveal cases where two women are seeking a pension for the same spouse, neither wife aware of the other.

While society became more liberal, the stigma of divorce was still felt by those involved. Women especially tried to avoid the label divorce, often calling themselves widows despite the fact they still had a living spouse if separated, or ex-spouse if divorced. To admit to divorce was an admission of inferiority or rejection. Widowhood, on the other hand, could not be construed to have been the widow’s fault. Into the mid 1900s census records reveal widows for whom divorce actions can be found in the courts.

They never taught that in History class.
Just as women in WWI and WWII were strong, women in the Civil war were often unsung heroes. Not to mention it would take a lot of courage to be on your own raising children at a time when divorce was a serious stigma, and employment for women was not common. Mina’s mom, Jane Bailey – what a strong lady.

Mina Estelle Lane later in life

Mina Estelle Lane later in life


Anna Francisca Heinzman: volunteer, world traveler, Mom

Anna Francisca Heinzmann 1920-1930 (courtesy of John James)

Anna Francisca Heinzman 1920-1930s

Standing in front of a Kodak advertisement and a sign for cigars, with a bobcut and knickers, she looks so… modern. Even almost 100 years later I instantly knew she was progressive. It made me wonder. What was she like?

I mean, not every girl wore “knickers” and rolled stockings in the 1920s. Cultural norms during that time dictated that it was acceptable to wear knickers for sport activities such as golf and hiking, but definitely not for everyday wear.

“The fact that the debate over women and pants was still happening the 1960s tells you that in the 1920s, women wearing pants were likely to raise eyebrows. Even Katharine Hepburn and her newsworthy trousers in the 1930s could not shake the public perception of women strutting around town in what was widely considered men’s clothing” (Vintage Dancer).

A woman wearing knickers (image courtesy of This Old Life).

A woman wearing knickers in the 1920s.  (image courtesy of This Old Life).

Anna, definitely rode “the wave of the future.” She saw a lot of change during her lifetime – and not just in dress lengths short options.

She lived through many events such as:
The use of Model T cars
The 1918 Flu epidemic
Women’s right to vote
KKK violence
The Great Depression

Anna Francisca Heinzman was one tough lady.

She was born in Sankt Leon Rot Germany, in 1908.

courtesy of wikipedia

courtesy of wikipedia

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Two years later Her father Ludwig Heinzman, her mother Rosa, and her older brother Gene August Heinzman sailed on a ship named the S.S. Lapland to America. The ship left in Antwerp Belgium, and arrived in Ellis Island New York. My great grandfather Gene remembered the first time he tasted orange marmalade was on the S.S. Lapland. He had never tasted an orange before and thought it was delicious.

Luckily, conditions were decent on the ship, even for second and third class passengers.

Washroom on the S.S. lapland Red Star line (image courtesy of Sanitation and Safety of Passenger Vessels (1911)

Washroom on the S.S. Lapland Red Star line (image courtesy of Sanitation and Safety of Passenger Vessels (1911)

Naturalization record of Ludwig, Rosa, Anna, and Gene

Naturalization record of Ludwig, Rosa, Anna, and Gene

Moving from Germany to Las Vegas, New Mexico must have been an enormous change for their family.

Las Vegas, taken in 1910.

Las Vegas, taken in 1910.

The Heinzman family eventually moved and settled in Oakland California.
A few years later Anna met Leslie Calvin Smith and they were married in Oakland on March 14, 1928. She was 19 years old, and Leslie was 23 years old.

According to records Leslie was known for his watercolor paintings and was a postmaster while studying at The California College of the Arts. I would love to see some of his paintings! However, I haven’t been able to find any.

Students painting outside  . CCAC - 1920s-1930s. (photo courtesy of CCAC archived images).

Students painting outside . CCAC – 1920s-1930s. (photo courtesy of CCAC archived images). It is very possible that Leslie Smith would have taken a class similar to this one.

Tragically, the young couple did not last. Leslie died three years later from unknown causes. Anna was left a widow with a young baby by the age of 22.
I can’t even imagine having your husband pass away during the beginning of the Great Depression with a young child.

Five years later in the summer of 1937 she married Harold August Dilberger, an electrical engineer.

Not much is said about her later years, but her obituary in the Alameda Star Times paints Anna Heinzman as a strong, caring, and accomplished lady.

DILBERGER ANN F. 93, of Montclair died Nov. 29th at Piedmont Gardens. She was born in Germany and immigrated to this country in 1910. She had been a resident of Oakland since 1922. Mrs. Dilberger was a homemaker and a small business owner. She also was a volunteer with Children’s Hospital, Republican Women, Campfire Girls, Girl Scouts and Piedmont Community Church. With her late husband, Harold A. Dilberger, she traveled extensively abroad. Loving mother of Lorraine Parmer of Pt. Richmond and Loretta Lawson of Nevada City Also surviving are six grandchildren, six great-grandchildren and her brother, Gene Heinzman of Vallejo. Interment at Mt. View Cemetery. Private services. Memorial donations suggested to Children’s Hospital, 747 52nd Street, Oakland 94609.

What a lady.